Think Piece – Page 5 – Lence in Layers

You First, Sis: Why Your Rest Is a Radical Act of Resistance

In the ever-evolving world, the art of forging genuine connections remains timeless. Whether it’s with colleagues, clients, or partners, establishing a genuine rapport paves the way for collaborative success.
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The Manipulator’s Playbook: Phrases Used to Deceive and Control in Dating

In the realm of modern dating, emotional manipulation can often be subtle, making it challenging to identify. Recognizing the tactics used by manipulative individuals is crucial for maintaining healthy relationships and personal well-being. Understanding Emotional Manipulation Emotional manipulation involves tactics like gaslighting, guilt-tripping, and passive-aggressive behavior to control another person’s feelings and actions . Manipulators…
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Why Our Obsession with Age and Beauty Is Backwards—and On Its Way Out

Let’s be honest: for too long, society has tied a woman’s value to her youth and beauty, as though both were currency with an expiration date. But that old narrative is cracking—and not quietly. More and more people are redefining what it means to grow older, and they’re proving something revolutionary: you don’t need to…
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When “Nothing.” Means Something

Decoding the Unspoken in Romantic Relationships We’ve all been there. You’re in a relationship where trust feels natural, and things seem to be going well. But then, something your partner says doesn’t sit right. Maybe they gloss over details, deflect your questions, or offer vague responses that leave you feeling unsettled. This isn’t necessarily lying—it’s…
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Why Failure and Rejection Are Necessary (Even When It Hurts)

— Especially in Love and in Work We’re taught to avoid failure like the plague. Rejection is framed as humiliation. But, the truth is, both are essential, not just for growth, but for clarity, direction, and building a life that’s truly yours. If you’re in a season of letdowns, in love or career, you might…
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Why He Fumbled You, Then Lurks in Silence

He ghosted. He breadcrumbed. Or maybe he was physically present, but emotionally vacant. You gave patience, clarity, softness, and effort—and in return, you got confusion, inconsistency, or emotional labor with no reciprocity. But then, weeks or months later, there he is: watching your Instagram stories, liking throwbacks, maybe following and unfollowing like a digital lighthouse…
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The Dangerous Myth of the “Nice Guy”: A Closer Look at Black Mirror’s USS Callister

Black Mirror’s USS Callister is more than a sci-fi parody of Star Trek or a showcase of immersive virtual reality. At its core, the episode is a powerful and disturbing critique of toxic entitlement and the sinister side of the so-called “Nice Guy.” Through the character of Robert Daly, the episode explores how niceness can…
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